Friday, 3 July 2015

Design For Change - Something to ponder over..


  1. When the diarrhoea bacteria enters our body, it makes it (our body) lose all its water and makes it dehydrated. Similarly, because of negative emotion/attitude inside us, what happens to our behavior? What do we lose as a result? 




30 comments:

  1. Because of negative attitude inside us our behavior becomes mean, selfish, unkind and arrogant. This hurts people and that is why we lose our friends.

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  2. The negative attitude kills the learning,reputation and the goodness inside us. It makes us lose happiness,friends and the sense of a human being. This happened to me in grade 5 when I became a negative person due to which i lost my friends and I had no happiness.

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  3. Like when we get diarrhea bacteria enters our body, it makes it (our body )lose all its waters and makes it dehydrated, similarly,because of negative emotion/attitude inside us, we become angry very fast, we start bullying people, we start hitting people, we become mean, selfish, unkind, arrogant etc. Through this we hurt peoples feelings and we break our friendships

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  4. This had happened to me last year where I became a negative person and started being mean, selfish, unkind and arrogant towards Ruchit.

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  5. Because of the negative behaviour inside us we become really arrogant and start losing all our positive behaviour. We turn out to be crazy "Hulks" we start screaming at each other and fighting with them. We also forget that there are friends near us and as a sudden reaction we bully them or tease them.

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  6. Verbal Diarrhoea is when u speak irrelevant or extra. This shows a bad impression pf urs. By this u wont be able to make friends because all of them get iiritated by you and want to stay away from you. This will make u feel lonely and alone. As in dehydration we start loosing wtaer similarly in verbal diarrhoea we start loosing friends and relationship with many people

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  7. The negative emotions/attitude leads to abusive words, disrespect and misunderstanding between each other. All of this leads to verbal diarrhoea which can lead to abusing, bullying, teasing and we disconnect from the topic and talk about something random. This leads to loosing our friends, creating hatred and discomfort between each other. Sometimes years of friendship breaks and become worst of enemies in no time.

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  8. Negative attitude and emotions and lead to a bad impression on your peers and teacher. This will way you will lose all your humanity and empathy and you will be arrogant and a irritating person for everyone around you. This both negative attitude and emotion is injurious to social relationships with everyone.

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  9. We get a lot angry on others and always think about ourself and start disrespecting others as in result we lose our friendship

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  10. Negative attitude or emotions will lead to rude behaviour, disrespecting others, feeling angry, the result will come as breaking friendships and creatong wrong mindsets about each other.

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  11. because of the negative emotions inside us we start becoming rude, selfish and careless. As a result we are unliked by peopleand lose some of them who are really important to us.

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  12. due to the negative emotions in us we start being rude,unkind,heartless,etc.as an outcome we lose all our friends and the people who we dearly love
    -natasha nigam

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  13. due to the to the negative emotions in us we end up being rude,selfish,unkind,etc.we hence loose our friends and the people who we love

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  14. Due to negative emotion/attitude inside of us, we lose all of our positivity and are left with negativity, resulting in a negative outlook on everything. We become arrogant, selfish, rude, cruel, etc. and harm a lot of people and things, both externally and internally. This breaks our relationships and harms our reputation. There is a lot of pain in the air and it becomes a very sad place to be in for everyone. This happened to me when I had held a grudge on a person and was very mean to her. This damaged our friendship and it took a long time to build it back up again.

    - Fena Mehta

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  15. The negative emotions and attitudes that are inside our body, does not allow us to look at anything positively. Through this attitude of ours we are not able to grow to our fullest and we fall into the well of becoming rude, arrogant, bossy, short tempered and harm ourselves. Nobody would like to have a person like this around and would want to ignore them and lead to breaking of friendship. I have experienced this, I use to become angry and bossy,which led to - I getting negative feedback all the time and friends not liking me...I have been improving on it and have more of true friends...
    - Mahek Devra

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  16. We lose one of the most important and surviving factors of life, friendship. It is what keeps us going and makes us feel wanted. It is what gives us courage to keep moving on, someone's got our back. Our negativity destroys the sacred bond of friendship

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  17. As the result of the negative attitude we lose our friends,our most important hope to live ahead. Same happens in diarrhoea,we die after we reach a certain stage,the chronical stage.......

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  18. And friendship cannot be mended after a certain time where it reaches the 'chronical' stage and as a result we die.
    -Jeet Mehta

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  19. Just like the water we lose our respect and relations

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  20. This kind of negative attitude leads us to loose happiness,friends and our self respect. It makes us rude and arrogant towards others. Like diarrhea can be prevented, verbal diarrhea can also be prevented by staying in a positive environment.

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  21. Mostly, we start blaming ourselves and thus people around us. This can lead to broken friendships and rude behaviour. In turn, we ourselves become depressed, which helps no none in this situation.

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  22. Though feelings are a powerful force and an inescapable part of life, they can have a pretty significant effect on your health --- especially if they're negative emotions.
    Negative emotions can cause anger, loneliness, stress and anxiety, and sadness.

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  23. When we have diarrhoea, bacteria enters the body, we start losing water and that causes dehydration, similarly when we have negative emotion/attitude we start losing many things which play an important role in our life. When we behave selfish, rude, arrogant, unkind and also get irritated by various things, it can lead to loss of moral support, friendships and mainly our focus on positive things. Where as we start focusing on negative things. People feel lonely when they do not have support, it's like a body without a backbone, we always have a confusion and we take decision that creates negative impact on us and on our dear ones. Quite often we realise that. we are not correct all the time but never accept due to our arrogant nature and earn only foes not friends. I faced a similar situation last year when I was the only girl in my class. I felt lonely and I became very sensitive and started becoming rude, arrogant and easily used to get irritated. And I started losing some of my friends.

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  24. The negative emotions/attitude in ourselves can take a lot of time to be positive. Our rude, arrogant, egoistic and selfish behaviour can be harmful for us as it spoils our relationship and friendship amongst peers, parents and teachers. This kind of behaviour can not only spoil our reputation but the way we respond to a situation.. I have been experiencing this in my past years as I used to become rude to my friends and had stopped talking to me but know the story has changed and I am improving day by day.

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  25. Negative emotion and attitude can make us selfish and mean-minded. Our behaviour can change and we may lose interest in the things that we enjoyed doing. This behaviour of ours can create misunderstandings and spoil our relations with family and friends

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  26. Just because of our anger, negativity and selfishness we loose relationship with our friends , family, peers and relatives. We also loose confidence to talk to the person again.We also loose interest in our hobbies and loose focus.

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  27. When I feel negative thoughts or emotions, I often react to people which can look arrogant or rude. This leads to more anger in me because I know that my actions are hurting others but at times, find it hard to control - like a diarrhoea. I lose concentration in my work, my smile and at times my sleep.

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  29. When I am negative I speak anything without thinking, I don't think that what will happen if I speak anything and don't think anything about that person. When a person is negative he can't see the goodness of anyone. Due to this quality the persons self esteem goes down, he/she become rude and thus break in friendship/ relationship.

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  30. As diarrhea we have verbal diarrhea with leads one to lose control of what one speaks and leats a lot of negativity that leads to aggrestion. Verbal diarrhea leads to a lot of less friends, arguments with family members and it relsults in aggrestion in our response, reaction and feild. This all leads one geting blind on all goodness around that individual.

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